21 heartbreaking lessons from the first quarter of 2012

11:27:00 PM

What's hard, mami?

  1. People give up. On good things. On other people.
  2. And you don't let people who give up on you dictate your worth. You measure your worth by the people who stay by and on your side.
  3. The three worst things you can say to a friend who's dealing with a break-up: maybe it's not meant to be, I knew he wasn't good for you and something something about fish in the sea. Whether or not there's some truth to it, it bypasses the person's feelings and passes judgment about the work the two people gave into the relationship.
  4. Love is a decision. You choose who you love. You choose who spend time with. You choose who let into your life. And you choose to stop.
  5. Love is patient. (I Corinthians 13: 4)
  6. Love does not demand its own way. (I Corinthians 13: 5)
  7. Love does not force itself to others. (I Corinthians 13: 5)
  8. A real relationship starts when and where the mind games end. Be vulnerable, be comfortable. Don't be calculated.
  9. A person can change.
  10. Never ever question that.
  11. "Honor is about what you decide, not what they deserve."
  12. People need to cut other people some slack.
  13. Don’t be misled—you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant. (Galatians 6: 7)
  14. When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable, But he who restrains his lips is wise. (Proverbs 10: 19)
  15. Always have a to-do list ready. So you wouldn't have to say that you don't know where to start. 
  16. Don't turn to distractions.
  17. Feel bad. Feel bad when something doesn't work out. Feel bad when when you fail. Feel bad when you don't get what you want. Feel free to hurt.
  18. But give yourself a deadline.
  19. Never trust the "fix things NOW" feeling. Always backfires.
  20. Just let go.
  21. God can. God will. God knows. 

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  1. omaygad. sana andun ka nung isang araw. puro heartbeak ang usapan over dinner lol

    @ item 3. i soooo agree with this. sometimes, we need to discuss our break ups with other people for their ears only. a hug would be a whole lot better than saying things especially when it's about that something something fish lol

    i miss talking to you dani! hope we get to talk soon ;)

    1. hi Tita J! Oo nga, eh late ko na naman nabasa. Sayang. Sana makita ko na kayo ulit soon!

  2. I totally agree on number 4. I hope you're doing fine now. :)

    Btw, I just learned that you changed your blog's name. I also changed mine months ago. It's now helloatticcat.blogspot.com.

    1. hey Tolens! Thank you, I'm doing better. :)

  3. Nice post, I also like No. 4(I posted it on my facebook status (^_^).

    Hope your okey.

    1. Hey Glenn! I am, thank you. :)

  4. Sorry for the first post I mean Hope you are okey (^_^)


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